The Lucky Sweater Way
We trade and shop each other’s closets, share style and life inspiration, support one another, and are fiercely protective of a safe, respectful, kind space for everyone. These are the standards that keep it that way.
Last modified 22 May 2026
Welcome to LS. We’re so happy you’re here.
Lucky Sweater is a trade-forward, buy-curious secondhand social platform powered by circular abundance. It works because of the culture we co-create, where generosity and respect are the norms.
Where else on the internet do strangers exchange beloved items, expect the best from each other, follow through on what they commit to, and show up — whether by respectfully negotiating a trade, holding space for a hard day someone’s posting through, or welcoming a new member who doesn’t know the vibe yet?
Everyone on LS is expected to follow these guidelines. If you see something that feels off, report it — reports stay between you and the LS team, and we review every one. Our shared commitment to upholding them is what protects this very special corner of the internet.
How we treat each other
Be kind to each other
Aggressive, confrontational and harassing behaviour isn’t allowed, and neither is disrespectful or threatening language. Expect the best from each other and follow through on what you commit to — a trade is a promise between two people. Trolling of any kind will not be tolerated.
Everyone belongs here
You should always feel safe and welcome. We don’t tolerate discriminatory conduct — including on the basis of age, size, ability, gender identity, marital status, political beliefs, socioeconomic status, national origin, race, religion, sex or sexual orientation. Anyone inciting violence or promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability will be banned. This applies in posts, looks, comments, listings and bios.
Don’t pressure or pursue
Respect each other’s time, pace and comfort. Pressuring someone for a quick answer, manufacturing urgency, or following up in a way that feels demanding isn’t allowed — and Away mode is there for a reason. All trade-related communication stays in the app.
Protect each other’s privacy
Emails, DMs and private chats are meant for the people in them. Don’t post addresses, tracking numbers or private messages anywhere public, and don’t use someone’s presence here to contact them off-platform without permission. Friendships born from trading are one of the best things here — with consent on both sides.
Hard conversations, held with care
This space is a container for big feelings, and hard conversations are welcome. Arguing, dominating or making others feel unsafe is not. When someone gets something wrong, lead with education rather than a pile-on — most people aren’t trying to cause harm, they just don’t know yet.
Contribute, don’t extract
Lucky Sweater is a community, not a marketing channel. No affiliate codes, sponsored posts or paid partnerships; no multi-level marketing; no repetitive or duplicate content; no redirects to other resale platforms; no engagement bait. Share what you care about as yourself — just don’t treat the community as a captive audience.
Because international shipping costs and tariffs can be unpredictable, members may express a preference for domestic trades and purchases. That’s a logistics decision, not a people decision — declining a trade based on who someone is, rather than where they live, is not okay.
All trade-related communication must stay in the app. Contacting someone on an external platform about a trade or message — especially after being blocked — is a serious violation of community boundaries, and creating duplicate accounts to get around a block or a disciplinary action means a permanent ban.
Be accurate and thorough in your listings
Trading works because two people trust each other to be honest about what they’re swapping. The person on the other end should know exactly what they’re getting before they commit.
Details
- Be thorough and accurate about condition, measurements, size, brand — and where the item came from (new from the brand, another marketplace, a friend, a thrift store).
- Include the item’s tagged size. Your own fit notes are welcome and encouraged in the description, but they don’t replace the size on the label.
- Accurately tag whether a piece was cut for women, men or unisex. That’s information about how the garment was constructed, not a stance on who can wear it. Unsure — vintage, handmade, no tags? Make your best guess and say so.
Photos
- Every listing needs at least three clear photos of the actual item: front, back, and the label if there is one. Add more when it matters — close-ups of damage, try-on selfies, extra angles for shoes and bags.
- Never use photos that belong to someone else: not another member’s listing of a similar item, not someone’s social media or marketplace account.
- Stock photos and brand lookbook images can’t stand in as your primary photos. They’re welcome as supplemental context — the original colorway, how the brand styled it, details that are hard to capture yourself.
- Relisting something you received on Lucky Sweater? Include at least one new photo. The next person is trading with you, not the previous owner.
Measurements
- At least three accurate flat-lay measurements on every item. Listings without accurate measurements will be declined.
- Brand size charts are welcome as supplemental information — never as a substitute for the actual measurements of the item in your hands.
If an item arrives and doesn’t match the listing — wrong condition, undisclosed damage, missing details that would have changed the other person’s mind — a trade back is required, meaning both members return the items to their original owners. Repeated issues with listing accuracy may lead to a warning or restrictions on your account.
Trade-forward, buy-curious
Every item on Lucky Sweater is available for trade. Members set their own preferences — ISOs only, size or style trades, gifting, or “try me” — and can also list items for sale.
- Keep selling language out of item descriptions, profiles and chats. Pricing lives in its own optional field, so members who prefer a trade-only experience can hide it entirely.
- No linking out to other resale platforms or external storefronts to promote your items.
- Respect trade-only preferences. If a member has listed an item as trade-only, don’t pressure them to sell.
Ship promptly, communicate clearly
- Ship within 3 business days of confirming a trade or sale, unless you’ve clearly agreed otherwise with your partner in a direct message. Confirming when you’ll ship and sharing a tracking number is even better.
- Travelling, or otherwise unable to ship in that window? Update your Away status and mark your items “Not available” until you can. A note in your Away message saying you’re slow to ship isn’t enough on its own.
- Respond to trade requests and messages within 48 hours where you can. Others are often waiting on your reply to plan their own trades — and if you know you’ll be slow for a stretch, say so.
- Once you’ve agreed to a trade, follow through. Going silent after committing, not shipping when you said you would, or disappearing without resolving an issue is one of the most harmful things you can do here, because someone is left stuck. Almost any honest message beats silence.
- Repeated ghosting affects your standing, and depending on the pattern and impact may mean warnings, restrictions on your trade activity, or removal from the community.
Don’t use Lucky Sweater to source items for resale
- Items you receive through trades are part of a community exchange, not inventory for a resale business. Trading here and flipping those pieces for profit elsewhere breaks the trust that makes trading work.
- We can’t monitor every other platform, but a pattern of items acquired through trades being resold for profit will mean warnings, restrictions or removal, depending on the scope and the breach of trust.
- If something doesn’t work out for you, relist it here. That’s the unique beauty of this space.
Discussions are for conversation
Discussions are for connecting and learning — fit and care tips, brand questions, sustainability, styling, handmade projects, recommendations. A few things belong elsewhere.
- No promoting specific items from your closet, unless they’re available to request as a gift or you’re inviting everyone to share from their closets too.
- No ISO posts for specific items. General recommendation requests are very welcome — “looking for natural fibre swim recs” works, “ISO babaà no.18 in pine” doesn’t.
- No promo codes, referral links or outside sales. Sharing a code for a small brand you genuinely love, in a relevant thread, is community; the same code posted across threads, in item descriptions, or as part of a brand partnership is spam. If you’re not sure, ask yourself whether you’d post it with no kickback involved.
No solicitation through packaging
- When two people agree to swap, they’re making a small promise to each other — show up, follow through, treat the exchange with care. We protect that.
- Don’t use the trade process or swap events to fundraise for candidates, recruit to religious organisations or push a cause. That includes notes and pamphlets in trade packages, and using a trading partner’s contact details, address or trust for future outreach.
- When someone agrees to swap a sweater, they’re agreeing to swap a sweater. Anything beyond that has to be invited.
Gifting
- Any item can be made available as a gift by setting its exchange preference to gift. Members can then request it and just pay shipping.
- It’s up to you, the giver, to decide who receives it — the first person who asks, someone who’d really benefit, whatever feels right. There’s no wrong way to decide, and nobody should take it personally if their request isn’t accepted.
- If you receive a gift, no reciprocity is expected. A thank-you is always nice; a trade or a gift back is not required.
- When a gifted item stops serving you, gift it forward. That’s how the generosity keeps moving.
Follow all laws
You’re responsible for knowing and obeying the laws that apply where you are.
Graphic content
No obscene, vulgar or pornographic content — media or text.
Fraud
Zero tolerance. Fraud is any attempt to misrepresent yourself or the items you’re swapping or selling, or to say you’ll ship or meet and then not follow through. Watch out for off-app payment: we can’t be responsible for anything paid outside the app.
Misinformation
We remove content and accounts meant to deceive members.
Donations and charities
Donation requests must link to verified charitable entities with contact information visible so members can confirm them. Community-driven initiatives are handled case by case.
Copyright and trademark
Unauthorised use of copyrighted, trademarked or otherwise branded content isn’t allowed, and content is subject to removal on review. Knock-offs fall under these guidelines too.
Prohibited items
These can’t be listed on Lucky Sweater — the list may include, but isn’t limited to:
- Prescription medication or drugs of any kind
- Illegal weapons, firearms and knives
- Bodily fluids, including breast milk
- Hazardous materials
- Pets and animals
- Used personal items such as make-up and sex toys
- Currency trading
- Car seats and cribs
Certain materials are porous and hold bacteria, so efforts to sanitise a used personal item may be ineffective; Lucky Sweater assumes no liability for the trade of personal items, which happens at your own risk. Car seats and cribs are excluded because older items expire and may no longer meet local safety laws. Human trafficking and any other illegal activity are prohibited outright.
How these guidelines apply
We have a range of ways to enforce them, including but not limited to:
- 1Asking you to update or delete an item listing, post or comment — from our team or one of your community moderators
- 2Removing an item listing, post or comment
- 3Removing an account from a specific community
- 4Suspending an account temporarily
- 5Suspending an account permanently
The LS team reviews every report submitted to us. When reviewing an account we may consider both on-platform behaviour and off-platform conduct that affects the community. If we believe content breaks the law, we may share it with the relevant authorities without prior notice. Accounts may be put on hold while a review is in progress, and serious or repeated violations can mean losing access to Lucky Sweater.
Your feedback matters
To report an incident, an item, or something that just feels off, contact our team through the app — press the “?” icon at the bottom left of the homepage — or email us. If you’re in immediate danger, alert your local authorities before notifying Lucky Sweater.
The community lives in the app.
Discussions, looks, trades and direct messages all live in the Lucky Sweater app — held to the same Lucky Sweater Way.